I'm 23 year old boy, a software programmer, working for a company and making enough money to live good life, i recently bought a new home myself.

When i was in collage , i wanted to make my career with software development and i made it. it was my hobby and passion and yes still is.

I get depressed because people round me all saying that i'm not enjoying my life and i won't find a girl at all because i spend my all time alone/working in front of my computer screen.

I do night shift so when my shift ends i get so tired, so i don't go out much, i just sleep on day and work at night thats it. I had friends in my school and collage life but i have no friends at all now, I think i'm not going out person so that's the reason i have no friends.

I'm introvert and i do enjoy alone time but sometimes because of human nature i also hate of being alone. just sometimes. Also i'm virgin as well.

I don't know whats happening around me, i just put my headphones and start my work each and everyday , the way i like it.

I think to be the best in something , i will have to put my all attention to it and that what i'm doing with my career.

I'm confused and also depressed and don't know whats happening to me and other people around me.

Thanks for reading and any help and comments will be appreciated.