All of a sudden (well not that soon) I really am not worried about my wife and me working things out. I think the meds have really kicked in. I have put a little distance between the two of us, and I think that is good for the both of us. Now don't get me wrong I do love my wife more than anything, but I am not going to crawl up her butt while we are seperated anymore. What will be will be...Let go and let God. Right?