Hi,

I'm new here, but glad I found this forum. I need a place to go when my mind won't get off the subject of my distraction. I am hoping this place will allow me to be a better employee again.

There isn't enough space here to tell the whole story...so, here's just snipit:

Me? Recently divorced (June). New interest? Divorced 3 times. Both of our divorces were at the same time and for the same reason...alcoholism in our spouses. We work in the same building. He the autotech teacher and me the computer networking teacher.

So, I think I know some of the responses...take your time, "honeymoon period"...get your stuff together first...and so on. But, I need to release. I tend to daydream about the possibilities with this man and that tends to take attention away from my work. I want to remain the "amazing" teacher my boss had hired and don't want to let him down. I want to be able to make it through the rest of this school year having made important strides in my program without letting this "possible relationship" interfere more than it should. I am hoping that this forum will be the outlet I need instead of spending so much time daydreaming.