Hello igiveupinohio: Are you taking med's of some sort? Many medications can have a chilling effect on libido. If you're on any types of prescription medications it might be worth discussing this with your prescribing physician. And then, of course, depression, stress, & anxiety can also put a damper on a person's interest in sex. These types of impediments need to be addressed in therapy.

One thing that sometimes happens is men lose the physical ability to have sex as a result of illness & / or surgery. They then have to learn to express their sexuality in different ways. It may be that what you're going to need to do is to learn new ways of expressing your sexuality in the hope that this will begin to resurrect your interest. I'm certain you could find books that would offer suggestions as to how to proceed. However, another alternative might be to see if you can find a therapist who works with individuals & couples who are having these kinds of difficulties.