Ok here is the flat basic rules of dating.

Try the online thing, talk to people , make it not all about me me me . Ask what they like and enjoy.

If your chit chatting with a few that's great . Don't expect whoever your talking to , to respond whenever you snap you're fingers , seriously online dating doesn't work that way , real life doesn't work that way either. Most all people are talking to numerous people ...so people can and will just stop texting , calling or video chatting and it's just they didn't find a connection with you or someone else they are talking too is what they want to invest time into.

What do you have to offer to a potential date ? Do you just talk about your concerts and bands you like? When asked about you career how do you respond ? ( you don't have to answer that here, just food for thought)

There are many other ways to meet people other than online dating sites. Meetup groups in your area, volunteer somewhere , your not working, please don't yell or screech over this , it's just a fact , so until your gainfully employed do something helpful, I have volunteered at soup kitchens , homeless shelters , do something meaningful. Getting out and helping people is another great way to meet people if not for a date then friendships and that's fantastic.

Stop pushing yourself onto people, no one likes that , ever

You can't force someone to like you , either there is connection or there isn't .

Your not a teenager, all that drama is silly and a waste of time for goodness sake ! that stuff should have been left in junior high.

Go out live your life ! help others , kind of like your getting so much advice here, go help someone . Because it's not always about you or anyone for that matter , get out of your own head for a while.

There ! That's my common sense ideas on dating . If you want to yell about my advice that's fine just go outside and yell. Screaming in caps and acting like a rude child is not helpful or gracious.