My husbands son came to live with us he had barely graduated and was flat lazy !

My husband and I sat down and agreed to rules that were to be followed and agreed to be a united front, period.

Long story short he got his shyyt together, now married has a great job and our grandbaby just turned 1 .

There is no way I could tell my husband " no your son can't come here " Had he not worked to straighten his life out then there was going to be given time limits etc .

Had I told my husband " NO" there would have been so much resentment between us , our marriage would have likely ended.

I hope you and you're husband can agree to whatever happens ❤️