Hi Ace333,
I read some of your previous posts and it appears that you have been unhappy with this man for over 2 years. Why do you think you don't deserve to be happy and have a partner that values you. From what I read, he really sounds a bit self-centered and immature, yet he is in his 30's. Do you really think you can change him, I don't.
If in the back of your mind, you are thinking he will propose to you, or worse, move in with you WITHOUT the benefit of marriage, what will you have really accomplished?
You don't seem to be compatible and he doesn't sound like a man with character. You really do deserve happiness and you only have this one life.
Were it I, I'd tell immediately how unhappy you are and that you want a break. Then take the break!
You will meet someone else and you should now know what it is you don't want from a man and filter out the poor choices sooner.
Good luck and keep us posted.