Do you ever meet half way? Do you meet at the location? Do you ever go to see the guys? Or do you always expect them to drive, pick you up, then go to wherever, then drive you home, and then drive themselves home?

Although ideally we all want to just be accepted as we are, when first meeting someone we are going to see the initial things.

What men will see about you:
- unemployed
- doesn't drive
- lived with parents
- expects to be picked up
- likes to go to concerts mid week
- volunteers with writing up articles about music
- available to talk at all hours

I don't drive. But I meet people places or find other ways to repay them for picking me up. Including dates. I would never, ever, expect someone j was dating to drive a long time to see me, without me also doing the same back and finding my way to them. It isn't fair otherwise and a relationship should be between equals.

Basically, the only advice we can give you is to sort your life out and/or change the attitude/expectations you have of the men you meet.

And, in every thread, people have been giving you advice and their thoughts. You get mad about them. So it isn't really what you want from us.