I'm pretty sure asking her to pay $200 in rent would give her reason enough not to come up here. She's not paying anything living with her mother and mother's boyfriend. Of course, I can see H saying that I'm being unreasonable asking her to pay any rent when she has no job. So how did she pay for her tattoo? How about gas in her car? Getting her hair dyed from blond to brown? All that makeup she has?

And getting her away from her mother has nothing to do with her well being. Her mother doesn't have a fit when she goes out with friends until all hours or spends the night somewhere. Her mom pushed her so hard to have this degree at 18, yet she didn't accomplish that and her mom hasn't pushed her any further nor has she pushed her out of the house. I think her mom wants to be her buddy and doesn't want her buddy to leave.