[QUOTE=Talthybius;5297887]I usually like Rose advice. But that is so immature to do. To make up excuses to do less and then just let it fizzle out. That's almost as bad as starting to act so badly that the significant other will dump you.

They already have been bad in communicating. Your first reason for breaking up makes no sense to me. He hasn't brought up marriage. Have you? Maybe you are a very traditional person where the male has to kneel down with a ring and propose. I just don't like the concept where the female waits sheepishly for the male to propose in dramatic fashion. It's 2016. I don't know how you can bring up marriage, and it ends in a fight, and you stay together after that. That's so odd to me.

To expand on this, each time its different sometimes I have asked for a simple yes would like to get married not even right this second but in the future or no you never do. I never get a straight yes or no, he's gets angry and defensive will say anything to change the subject , even say mean and awful things,but will never say Yea or no till
And everytime its the same thing any mention of the subject turns out the same. Unless its someone else asking like friends, then he just laughs and quickly changes the subject.