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Originally Posted by AnxiousGirl
Thanks guy. I guess what I'm worried about most is that this will ruin her trust with me. Because if I lied now, what if she thinks I'll do it again you know? On one hand I want to hide the face that I lied and on the other hand I don't want to hide the fact that I still have severe anxiety.
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I'm sure your t will understand. We all say and do things we regret later. Fessing up, coming clean shows that you have a good conscience. What you are doing is taking accountability and making things right because you
want to - not because you got busted and
have to. That's integrity, and integrity actually builds trust. Besides all of that, letting your t know what is really going on is going to help you get the help you need from her.