Hello, ARich here, man, age 54. I've been in a mildly verbal abusive marriage sixteen years to controlling wife. Much of the time I allowed it, didn't bother me as I had my space. Now it is a bother as my wife is retired. I just need to get my anger out in the right place. I did this when there were problems a few years ago, found a marriage rant site but ran into other women ranting about men which really opened a can of worms and had me feeling worse.