I question many of my thoughts and responses to people, generally assuming it is me with the problem...so would like some thoughts.

I have just been away for the weekend. On return, my wife said that she 'had to text me to get a reply from me'. Not strictly true, as I texted to say I had arrived, and would have texted each evening had she waited for me to do so.

I feel her statement indicates controlling behaviour on her part. While reasonable to expect an arrival text, should one force a reply text by texting? In my books, no. But I might just be being overly sensitive right now...

Plus mother behaves similarly...

Thank you, folks.