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Old Sep 27, 2016, 08:19 AM
Sarmas Sarmas is offline
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Originally Posted by ramonajones View Post
I don't know. That's the thing. In one sense it feels good to be attached to these people who are giving me attention and care and on the other hand I'm not sure if it's unhealthy--on top of being a huge financial burden.
You makes a good point. I think it's harder to make a decision when we are attached but nevertheless it's important to think of how the financial burden will impact our life. Experiencing financial issues can be so stressful. I was in a similar situation where I needed to decipher if I was going to continue therapy due to financial changes in my life. I came up with a plan where I was able to afford it with proper financial management but I needed to know if it was well worth it. I was attached to my T and I didn't want to let go but I realized that it was a one way relationship. It didn't matter to her if I was in her office or not. I decided not to go through with the plan. Now I'm glad that I didn't spend the extra money doing so. Of course this is not everyone's experience but I had to take a step back and analyze my scenario. It definitely was not an easy decision.