I think it might indicate some impatience and possible manipulation on her part. Whether or not there is also a trust factor on her part that is or is not 'deserved' is something you will have to think about. I perceive the mention of 'had to text you to get a reply' as a form of manipulation, indicating any number of possible issues.
If my spouse were away, I would certainly expect a text from him at some point during or after 'work' when he felt he was physically and mentally prepared to do so. If I did get concerned and text him, it would likely be a matter of several hours after his 'day' was done and I would have sent a query text. It would have been phrased as a query about health or stress, not a 'prompt' or guilt trip attempt.
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