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Old Sep 27, 2016, 02:26 PM
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Originally Posted by itjustis View Post
I feel like my T has taken away any little bit of control I thought I had in our relationship. I don't feel empowered at all. Her boundaries are so tight compared to last time and I'm feeling awful because of them.
She has changed everything and I don't feel like I had a choice in the matter. It feels like a case of 'my way or the highway'. I feel like she's had enough of my crap and couldn't care less about me. Especially as I couldn't have a session this week as well.
I think what you write above is exactly what you should tell her and try to discuss next session if you haven't already. Making the attempt to clear up the confusion, and just being heard could be the first step in taking your power back. Sorry you are going through this nightmare.
Thanks for this!
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