My husband and I have been having trouble with our marriage this year. We have had many many conversations and arguments this year and still find ourselves not resolving anything. One of my biggest issues is he is selfish and incapable of putting anyone's needs before his own.
This month I made a plan to quit smoking after 20 years. Everyone in my house knew the day. My husband decided to pick that day to discuss his feelings and displeasure about our marriage. I stood strong and didn't smoke. But I seriously thought about it.
So...was this incredibly selfish of him to bring up these issues on the day Im trying to accomplish something very hard? Or am I over reacting? Please be honest. I really want to know.
Thanks