lol, women are sensitive creatures guided by emotion. If she isn't getting you something, maybe she is feeling like you two aren't what you used to be. Try talking to her. Ask if there is something wrong in the reletionship from her point of view. If she says yes, then do something to fix it. It is really nice to see a caring man on here though, and as being someone who deals with depression herself, it's not you who has the misguided veiw of the world, you just have your own perfectly fine view, no matter what society tells you.

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