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Old Sep 28, 2016, 11:28 AM
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There is no way he is going to be happy, unless you do what he wants. And there is no way his mother is going to be happy, unless you do what he wants. So you better do what he wants and let him back in. If that means your kids grow up in an environment of abuse, too bad! You and those kids are not important. What's important is him being happy.

After all, you do want him to be "reasonable." If you would let him come back and, then, if you would just act right, he would be absolutely fine. He's explained to you, I'm sure, that you are the one who causes problems by stressing him out . . . just like you're doing now. His mother can see that very clearly. So make up your mind that you are going to fly right and stop giving him all the grief you have been giving him. Show him that you care. That's all he needs.

If you want him to stay as the reasonable, untwisted man that he trys so hard to be, then let him come home where he belongs.

FogetMe, do you hear the crap you're telling yourself?
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