Things are working out. I'm not in a support group yet but I'm looking into my options. He returned the kids on Saturday and then came by to babysit on Monday. If things keep going as they are he's going to be taking them again Saturday night.

There's still about a year before I have to worry about school but most likely from mine as after only a week of living at his mom's he's now basically begging to come back. He says his mom gives him no privacy, judges his habit, and keeps telling him over and over that this is my fault.

I feel bad, I care enough that I don't want him to be unhappy and his mom continually blaming me isn't healthy, he's just gonna get twisted about it and possibly stop being reasonable with me but it hasn't been nearly enough time. I'm feeling guilty about having to say no next time we talk.