I got in trouble this morning for telling a family member that I really hate being asked that question. I could probably count on one hand the people that have asked me that that really wanted the answer. I generally say I'm fine, or not too bad when most people ask. The worst for me is when somebody really means it, and genuinely wants to know. I once had a boss that put his hand on my shoulder, and asked if I was doing okay. (I really respected this man, he was descent). I looked away from him, and he patted my shoulder and and backed away. I walked down the hallway where nobody could see me. He went around the corner and said to another employee that I had to leave early, and he would be covering the rest of my shift. He knew I could hear him. I really miss him being my boss and someone I looked up to.

Wouldn't it be nice,if people only asked questions that they are prepared to deal with the answers for?