Why there?

I mean I'm more of a depressive type. More likely to see me cry in private. Used to be a cutter as a teen and well I fit the Borderline Personality Style as opposed to disorder. I've a ton of empathy. I do know how to stand up for myself. If my words are biting, then that's the self defense technique. Probably affected by being an Aquarius. I've learned how to roll with the punches. Stopped taking things personally on a day to day basis, not that that doesn't stop me from taking things personally at times. I have a lot of melancholy moments. Gradiose, not close. I do better in support roles. I'd rather see others shine than myself. Hence the long ago, months long discussions about shame. [emoji57]