My wife and I are separated and going through a divorce.
We have 3 children ages 8, 6, and 5.
She has been working to vilify me to my children, used the court to only allow me 9 hours a week with them but I bought them a cell phone to keep contact.
Yesterday my 6 year old told me that their mother is doing drills with them on what to do if someone comes to the house to kidnap them.
I really fear this and other things she is doing like instructing them to keep secrets and withhold information (they express fear in telling me much of anything) is having a negative emotional/psychological information-packed on my children.
I guess my question is whether this sort of behavior from their mother is harmless or harmful