I am coming to grips with it so to speak, but I believe a lot of her reason for deciding she wants to be with a man, is all for the wrong reasons, not because it is the "right" thing for her, but pressure from her family, her family were always "ok" with us and everything, but they always would have preferred her to be with a man, they never acknowledged me as her girlfriend, I was her friend. They "accepted" her whomever she was with so to speak, and said they loved her, even if she was a lesbian, but they still preferred her to be with a man, and live the normal life, what they felt was normal, and have a normal life and give them a grand child like her brothers did. so I think she was feeling the pressure and has decided to conform to their wishes. She is the type that will not go against what they want or will not speak her mind to them she will just go along with it, I firmly believe she will see one day it was the wrong decision, maybe not, but I believe she will. It was her decision, now she has to live with it.