Im having problems with a women who used to be involved with the man I am now having a close relationship with. Something is wrong with her and she wont let go of continually trying to hone in on my boyfriends time which is really our time to be together. He keeps on telling her over and over again that he is having a relationship with me now but she is not getting the message. To make things worse she has emotional problems that upset everyone here, he knows this but he still allows her to stay. This situation is hard to explain, we all live here together at this business. He has left his relationship with her as being friends, which I think is good and says alot about him. Hes a good man who has only wanted to help her. Now she claims she has no where to go, meaning to other place to live. Her story all ways changes how ever. It has been the consenses of others here who have known her longer then me that her only aim is to try to get back together with him in a sexual way which he does not want to do and I trust him. She pretends she is here for the cause of this organization which from what Ive seen she is not. She is passive aggressive and continously tries to be my close close friend which Im not intersted in being. I will be nice to her but that is it. When she does this she tries to get me to say bad things about my boyfriend. Like she has issues with him and she wants me to confide what mine are to her. No way will I , she has boundaries problems and all ways tries to hug me and call me sweet heart and things that are condesending to me. She corners and me and asks really akward questions, like she says, I know you dont want me here and I make you uncomfortable but Im here, is that all right with you. If I say no she gets really upset and goes tells my boyfriend how awful I am being to her, its actually the other way around. Shes fake. She has created a triangle now where I will say something innocent to her she mistakes it becasuse she has problems and then goes running off to him. This upsets him , he doesnt know how to handle her. He isnt the kind of person to tell her straight out, I want you too go. Help, I need advise, thanks/
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