p.s. I was no good at cleaning, taking care of the kids, and I've never been all that interested in sex. If you can clean the house and take care of the kids, I'm pretty impressed with people who can do those things well. That's an extremely important job, not useless at all. But I couldn't do it anymore and had to get out and do something else. I'm still married and still have kids, but we try to divide the work a little more, and get the kids to help out more, and I have a job and go to school.

If you are able to do the mom job, I think that is a wonderful accomplishment. But if that isn't fulfilling for you, maybe it would help you to find other roles that work better for you.