His mother. Same old story of manipulation, sort of.
She had to be taken to the ER. And although she can be a pain, I was worried. So I kept calling the house, getting no answer. Finally I called, she answered so she was home. Good.
The following week. I called to check on her, she said the day before she had to go back to the ER. We talked, she was glad I'm looking out for her. Good.
Today. I called again because I promised I'll keep in touch. She said she had to go back to the ER yesterday! I asked about her eating habits, etc. She said this time (yesterday) they had to use a machine to start her heart back. Not good. Then I remembered after the second time of being in the ER, she said she gets excited and aggravated. So today I asked her what is it that's making her excited and aggravated.
She said life in general. Then, and I couldn't believe it, she said it was when i got her upset...back in July this year. "But that's over with now" she said.
So she's gonna let something that happened past July get her excited and aggravated? Unbelievable! Even though she said "but that's over with" in the next breath? Are you kidding me or what!?
A girlfriend told me not to let her raise my pressure up, and girlfriend sure enough didn't have to say that for child, pul-lease! I sure aint!
Oh and I asked momma how did she get to the hospital yesterday since, I'm thinking to myself, her son, her "go to man" isn't around. Again unbelievable! "Well it's not far, so I drove."
Sooo, I said to myself, you CAN get around after all.
Yes, she's sick, there's no doubt. But she's sick in another way too. She's using people. She manipulates, etc. My girlfriend said that was three times in one week I called to check on her, and so girlfriend feels I need to give it a rest for a bit. Yet momma, one of her last words before we hung up was "please keep checking on me." Really? So you can try your best to treat me like you treat your children? I DON'T THINK SO! YOU DON'T KNOW ME LADY.
I'm really wondering if her son was there, my boyfriend, would she want me to keep in touch? Of course not! Because then she'll have her "go to man" to do all the dirty footwork. And has the nerve to bring up stuff back in July this year. In effect blaming me!! I'm not your son lady! I definitely know how to say NO!