mckell, You sound very upset?? yes we "hire" T's, but they are still a humanbeing and theres more to the process then just facilitating? we are on our own in one sense outside the session but we have an added addition to help us process this stuff because of the session? I don't know your T and can't say anything about her or her ability to help you. I think its ok to have an expectation?? maybe once every 2 weeks isn't enought to help you?? I Know I NEED twice weekly to keep the processing of the stuff going and to be able to internalise enought of T to help me outside of T. Perhaps you need to think about uping your sessions or if you truely feel this T isn't helping, then find another one??