I get what you mean.. But... We all experience things on a different level. We all have far more baggage from our own pasts then we can remember at any given time, but our subconscious minds do.. and that plays into fear and how we each handle it.

I would try not to judge someone on something like this... Who am I too? Walk a mile in anothers shoes before judging.. You know? Let people have their own feelings, there are worse things in the world.