Thank you all for your support. I can only say so much in detail about the set up here. She said she was moving and she did but she came back. Her story all ways changes. My boyfriend has ended their relationship as friends and I respect that. Shes the kind of person who doesnt want to get the message that he isnt interested in her sexually and hasnt been for along time now but its as if she keeps hoping for it anyways. The problem is with her and myself because I sometimes dont know how to deal with her.

She follows me around and wants to be close bussome buddy friends and I dont. I will be nice to her but thats it. She tries to get me to talk about him behind his back and suggests that hes verbally abusive. She even tried to give me a book on this. She thinks that the status of our relationship to him is the same, almost like we are sharing him. She cornered me the day which she has been doing often, and feels some how that if Im not her close friend and react to her in a way that makes her feel better about the situation, she gets all upset and goes texting the whole episode to him as to her version of what happened between us. H e knows she has problems and supports me to a point but basically I dont think he has a clue as what this girls problem is. She claims she has no where to go right now and I think he feels sorry for her. Im not excusing him how ever but it is up to him and I dont think he has the heart to tell her leave.
What happened is that she confronted me again. I think she thinks if she gets my approval as a friend, her chances of being able to stay here will be set. We do have a group vote system when certain people her dont work out. She keeps sending me notes and things, tries to hug me and kiss me on the cheek sort of thing and Im not comfortable with this. I make it obvious and she gets all upset and goes tell him again. He's sick of it actually, the drama.. I dont need it and no one else here does either. Finally I just told her point blank how I felt because she had me cornered again.. I asked her, is he having sex with you? I knew the answer was no and I proceded to point out to her that this is how my relationship with him is different then hers. She got all upset but I felt I had no choice but to make this difference clear to her. She was telling me she doesnt want to compete with me, well.. I told her it isnt even a question of this. What else could I say because it isnt.
She is forming a triangle with this reporting to him any little that upsets her about me, when Im being as nice and patience as I can until this last time she cornered me with her stuff about him and her and me of course. I want nothing to do with her. The deal is shes in love with him and wont let go.
I think this last conversation I was pushed into having with her finally brought her issue too ahead of excepting reality. Shes been gone so to speak for the last few days, probably all hurt and upset crying some where. What am I suppose to do? I had to tell my boyfriend that she was trying to get me to agree hes abusive and handed me this book! I am so mad about this because hes not abusive and I think if she thinks this about him what is she doing here!!!!! sHE DOESNT LOVE HIM shes obsessed.