Sorry you are having this kind of problem Darke.

I guess what I would say is first and foremost you need to have communication between you and your wife. There must be some reason she feels the need to look for others to date on the net. Don't know if it's her issue or a problem within your marriage.

I guess I would do some good long and hard thinking about your relationship and see if you can come up with some idea of where you both stand. Do you talk to one another? Do you have a social life together? Do you share in the household chores? Do you both work outside the home? If not, is boredom setting in? Do you both have individual interests (aside from the internet) that you both pursue? Do you have the same interest in love making? Do you care for each other when ill?

Marriages are difficult at times. They take lots of work, compassion and understanding between both parties. It's very easy to get "off track" at times.

I hope you can start some kind of communication with your wife and have a heart to heart about what is going on. I wish you both well!

Hugsss
sabby