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Old Sep 30, 2016, 10:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Bipolarchic14 View Post
When I was in my group last week one of the group members was crying. She recently started working at a mental health program. One of the employees was making fun of borderline personality disorder claiming they are only trying to get attention.

Then last year when I was in my IOP program there was an LCSW in the program with me and she spent most of the time making fun of her patients. This makes me wonder what they really think of us.

I am just wondering if others experience the same thing I have experience .
That seems nuts! I think this is a hard subject to define because everyone experiences "caring" as something different. I think my T "cares" enough because she rarely cancels (and she did today for monday, and i am sad, but am assuming something came up unexpectedly), and is always present for my sessions despite me being the last session on a long day. But more than that, it is just a "feeling." You can tell when someone isn't REALLY invested in your future or fate. Or at least, I can. People fake it all the time, and some people are probably very good at it, especially sociopaths

I don't know. I've had two therapists. I think my first one cared enough, but we just didn't click. Her way of working did not work with my way of dealing. I just thought it was normal until I couldn't take it anymore and quit. I got VERY lucky, and my second therapist...I knew after the first sesion that she understood me pretty easily, and that we'd "click." I hate that term, but for some reason it does work.