This is a topic that many of us know so well and to others it is alien. There are so many different types of ruptures and various different reasons.
I am guessing that many will depend on the client and therapist, their different backgrounds/ personalities and many of them occur because of circumstances and therapeutic interactions.
I have been thinking a lot lately about mine and my ts many many ruptures and can identify a few reasons. Our most recent rupture was because of her disclosures, her pacing and counter transference . Most of our ruptures stem from a serious of empathic failures, some small and others unforgivable!
I am curious to know how your ruptures began in therapy and were they eventually mended/ forgiven?