So grateful for both of your responses!!!! I may need pc people to help me reality check this situation. The more I think about it the angrier I get. Like he is hiding behind authenticity. I could go into work in sweatpants some Netflix and a bag of Cheetos and kick back all while claiming to keepin it real. But that's sloppiness not authenticity. I think he's been sloppy with me. And not taking responsibility for screwing up the dbt thing really irks me. He said he wouldn't have put my name down if we hadn't discussed it. We touched on the fact that he ran a group but with my financial situation I would never agree on the spot to join up

He seems like he may still have issues himself which could be positive if he is self aware enough. I'm going to have a hard time evaluating him with a clear eye because I want it to work. Pc people you will have to give me reality checks now and then if willing!!! So glad to have you all