With my long term t the first five years were ruptures. "You don't care about me I quit,". Then t would call me and reassure me then we'd work it
T out. It took years until the ruptures were further apart.

With Sparky my only true rupture was early on when he was helping me with the driving phobia. It was close to the end of session time but we were not close to being back in the office still on the road in my car. I missed a right turn and he raised his voice at me "turn here!" Which made me jump out of my skin. He sounded angry too. I almost dumped him curbside to walk back. Amazingly we worked that one out. Sparky knew he screwed up and owned it like a champ