You're looking for a guy who is as into alternative music as much as you, and who is ready to get married.

You talk about wanting to talk on the phone. That's confusing. Why would you be talking on the phone rather than being together in person?

Maybe if you touch upon more of the things you offer in a relationship it'll help. Saying that you like to cook, garden, build things at home, for example. That you hope to travel with him someday...