Ah, it all makes sense now.

I highly recommend changing your photos, they are not flattering at all.

As for your profile, most guys won't read it. I've been on OKCupid for years and it took me a very long time to set myself up with flattering photos (which is hard when I change my hair color every month) the right things to say, and to spell out exactly what I want in a relationship and the best way to start dating. And still, guys are donkeys and will still send me "Hey"....and that's it, which is NOT what I want and if they read my profile they would understand that I want more than just "Hey". And then the ones who seem truly interested in me live in Europe. So WTF?