I get what you wanted brown owl. Unless anyone is in the room with you. We cannot tell whether T is still acting as a container, or whether she's just cold man! Only you can answer that.
I wrote a post a few weeks back where I talked of expecting something from T, like you, but as the session sank in, I'd realised T acted as a container, and not a rescuer which enabled me to take another step forward.
As I say, no one can say whether your T is doing it right or not.