The things you say you want in your profile contract each other. You say you want a guy who "has his life together" and has a job-- yet you want someone who can talk on the phone from 9am-2am. No adult with a professional career has that kind of free time. I realize you don't understand that because you don't work. If you worked full time, you would be TIRED at the end of the day and the LAST thing you would want to do is sacrifice sleep to be on the phone for 5 hours with someone you just met on the internet. It's selfish to think that men with jobs should accommodate this request because it is not "apples to apples." You don't work; he is the only one sacrificing himself to entertain you. Maybe what you need is a guy who doesn't work, so he has the same kind of free time that you do?

I would also recommend being more honest about yourself in your profile. You say you are a music journalist and describe yourself as ambitious and say you want someone who is as ambitious as you are. But you aren't really a music journalist-- which anyone reading your profile would know because you also list your highest level of education as high school. It would be extremely unlikely for a professional journalist not to have a college degree in journalism. So, if I read that online, I would assume the person was being dishonest and not contact them. I would wonder what else they weren't being honest about.