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Originally Posted by _Mouse
But, this **** needs to happen in therapy. How can one learn to trust a relationship if it had to bear fruit constantly. It's the repairing together that's worth more than it never happening.
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Not everybody is in therapy to learn how to do relationships though. So it is useful to some people (me included) but not everyone.
Also, the functionality of ruptures in therapy is dependant on the competence of the therapist. So ruptures with T can be enlightening but ruptures with T1 were just distressing.