This is really how my t has been with me since the disclosure of my trauma and subsequent dx of ptsd and bpd... And aside from a few minutes or ruptures therapy has really worked well on this method. Sure there were times that we had frequent out of session contact, but it is tempered with my periods of time of stability and minimal contact with t.

I have never been made to feel bad for depending on him. We've never had issues with boundaries, because of the way we operate I have never felt bad about asking him if he though a particular behavior was to close his boundaries or now.. Ana we have had those convos a lot because of our kind of duel relationship.

It can work like this!