Dragonphoto,

I know when my Mother died 2 1/2 years ago, I would have loved to have someone there with me to comfort me through it all, don't be too sure your wife doesn't want if even if she doesn't show it or let you know.....sometimes when we do things out of love, it means a whole lot more than if we doing them because we feel we have to. Close support during times like this is important too...or course, be sensitive & if she really doesn't want you around, respect that too.....but first of all, try to be there for her...let her determine if that isn't what she wants.

My prayers are with both of you, for the strength to do what is needed.
Debbie