That would be me. However, that comes with an important caveat... two days ago our therapist said, "If I had to come up with a single sentence describing the two of you (there are only two in our system), I would say that Sonseearae is wise and Xxxxx is wicked smart. I like the idea that wisdom comes before intelligence."

We were discussing which of us came first - the original and after a revelation, I had just settled on Sonseearae being first. So...me but there are more important things than intelligence and wisdom is one of them. Kindness is another...and she beats me out there too, but I try.

Regarding the music thing...kind of wanted to weigh in on that too...

We listen to about an hour a day of her playlist every single day...and unfortunately, there is only two songs on it. "Under the Sea" and "Hawaiian Roller Coaster". I actually don't enjoy listening to music but I actually rather enjoy her listening because it makes her so happy that sometimes I'll sing along with her.

What do you think are good traits for a protector to have?