RE: The photos. Please get someone to take a couple of photos that aren't straight-on shots. I think what might be happening is your description reads like a very petite female but your pictures are reading like a male (it's hard to explain) dressed as a female. The straight-on photo makes your facial features look very masculine and when you couple that with the very "aggressive" commentary you have put on your profile, you may be attracting men who are attracted to transvestite or transgender people. I'm just giving you my immediate reaction (as a female) when I read your profile. Also, I think your glasses might be prescription and cannot be changed right now, but they are too big for your face. Next time you get eyeglasses please have the person who assists with ordering give you their opinion on the correct size frames for your face.