My T acted similar to this. However, I have a tendency to see that if I'm an issue then I run in the other direction. I do have dependency issues but I have the control to terminate it and be realistic about things. When I saw how dependent I was and how she reacted to me I felt like a bother and canceled a few sessions. I'm not sure how my T was to handle that. I'm not sure how she took it or even if it was something that she thought about. I felt like I was annoying her and that she lost her interest and so I disappeared. So was it better to take a different approach than the one she took. I'm not sure how my dependency case is different than others and if the same method works. I'm used to abandonment and that's how I feel. I ended up freeing her and now I deal with the issues on my own the way I used to 4-5 years ago.