I've copied and pasted from a post I made here and e-mailed it to my marriage counselor. Because I feel like I said it perfectly on here. And both T and MC know I use this forum (I've specifically said it's Psych Central). But I haven't shared my user name with either of them or showed them a post with that visible. If either of them wanted to find me, though, I'm sure it would be pretty easy. Since not many people on here talk both about a T and a marriage counselor (plus the timing of posts would line up with my appointments, etc.). But I doubt either of them have (or at least they're good at not revealing what they've read).