I once sent T1 a text asking if he was having fun on his combine. He did not think that was at all appropriate. I thought I was just checking in (checking in was fine with him). It took a few sessions to get thru that (but I was seeing him daily) and I felt rather gun shy about texting for quite a while.

T2 and T3 no ruptures. I've left T2 a few times mad at her, but I don't stay mad. There's a part of me that is pretty reactive to her.

If I had frequent ruptures, I would have to quit. I couldn't stand it. I have never had a t say that boundaries were changing or lie to me or put me down or do any of the rather horrible things I read about here. I am pretty sure that my teen ego state would kick in and I would be out of there.