I stuck it out with current T even though first session wasn't so great. I was getting away from bad T, who had very bad boundaries among other problems, so I was ok with the feeling of not "fitting" right away. Current T had very good boundaries and was clearly competent on a lot of levels, so I stayed. It has been hard at times, but it is getting better. I think part of the problem is he is a guy, never had a male T before cause I'm afraid of men. So, I see it as an opportunity to work on many problems at once