Might it be you don't let others rest between questions or don't acknowledge/appreciate their answers enough? I know my stepmother use to pepper me with questions and I never knew what they were "for"; in her case she was trying to "trap" me or lead me into thinking things her way.

My T had a lot to teach me because I didn't acknowledge what others said to me. I just went on to the next thing from my head. You may be doing that, not "receiving" their answers and acknowledging the answer and the person who answered it, etc.

I know I have a problem still, talking to my doctors; they'll tell me something and if I don't "like" it or it doesn't agree with what I think I know I argue or present other information without sitting with the information they have given me and working with it. It is like I discredit their information, education, knowledge and experience sometimes.