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Originally Posted by ruh roh
She wouldn't understand that you find comfort here if you are laughing with her, which it sounded like from your post. Sorry if I got that wrong.
I am remembering someone here from a while back who had told her therapist about comments by posters, and reported back that her therapist called posters ***holes or something like that. It just struck me as more about the therapist to judge people with mh concerns on an internet forum. In my case, it hadn't occurred to me that I risked hearing judgement from my therapist about internet people and, by inference, myself. And how it would have felt to learn she was the type to laugh at other people.
Sorry..this seems to have struck a chord with me. I react badly to therapists who laugh at people.
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I always laugh when other people laugh, it's something I can't really control. I am sorry it struck a chord with you. It's a sensitive subject and a lot of our ruptures have been over t laughing inappropriately, I wonder if it's a nervous habit like mine sometimes.
I think she was laughing more at me than at the forum because I told my ex t I loved her after reading it on an Internet forum and she just thought it was hilarious. I see now how if I wasn't in a good place that could have been very damaging. T does laugh inappropriately at times and I am sorry if it hurts you to hear that.